Investigation Services


If you are suspecting that you are being deceived,
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Private Investigation;

Private Investigation is to be able to obtain evidence on a subject requested to be investigated by persons or firms with special equipment (devices like camera, voice recorder, photograph machines, etc., internet-computer networks, and by the use of several programs such as “Vehicle Tracking Systems”, “Geographical Information Systems”, “City Information Services”). Private Investigation can only be conducted by a person that is a criminal expert that has received training at a Criminal Laboratory, is an expert in its field or that has taken master’s degree education in programs like crime psychology, criminology, or who is an academician in one of these branches of science. It is widespread in Europe and USA. Private Investigation is generally conducted by retired security staff. The Private Detectives keep confidential the investigation-following activity they are doing, the identity of him/herself and the customer. In their following activities they generally act together with the security forces or get help from them. When necessary, they change their appearance or conceal their identities. When they are exposed, they place in their assistants. A Private Detective must know several information on criminalistics, societal psychology, investigation and querying techniques, criminal and personal psychology, criminology, sociology, ballistics, trailing, photography, laws, scene examination, finger print detection, using various light sources based on optics knowledge, ability to use measurement-evaluation tools, photograph comparison, identity detection and individual recognition, using the internet, etc.

Private Investigation in Turkey;

Our company has been working in the private investigation sector for 15 years. The private investigation sector in Turkey has not yet been regulated with laws. The Private Investigation Law was submitted to the Turkish Parliament (TBMM) in 1994 and accepted. However, the President sent the law back to TBMM to be discussed, the law then did not come to the agenda of TBMM General Board and forgotten in the dusty shelves of the related committees. As of today, there is no law regarding Private Investigation. However, this does not mean that the Private Investigation Services currently being performed are illegal. The existence of a law will actually protect the person and institutions conducting this service rather than the customer. Since this law will map out the authority and responsibility areas of Private Detectives and they will be able to obtain support from the official bodies of the government within the boundaries drawn while on duty. Our company is performing the private investigation service with scrutiny by abiding by the Constitutional rights and in the framework of the Turkish Republic laws. The employees that work at our company as private detectives are expert and professional persons at their jobs.

Important Warning for the Ones that Want to Purchase Investigation Service  !!

As in every sector, unfortunately there are persons in error and mistake for earning easy money. These unknown persons are claiming in their web sites to be the first private detective of Turkey and their company as the first private investigation company in Turkey. Please insist on seeing the T.R. ID CARDS of these persons, please look at the PLACE OF BIRTH AND THE DATE OF BIRTH. CLOSELY EXAMINE THEIR TAX BOARDS. ALWAYS CHECK WHO THE WORKPLACE OWNER IS. ESPECIALLY LOOK AT THEIR DATE OF BUSINESS COMMENCEMENT TO SEE HOW LONG THEY HAVE BEEN DOING THIS BUSINESS. We recommend that you do not work with these types of problematic persons and you contact us if you have been wronged.

1. What is Private Investigation?
 
a) Private investigation is typically widespread in Anglo-Saxon countries and it is the type of occupation that performs the major duties of the police forces. It is generally performed by retired security staff. The duties they will perform are limited with certain laws and they do not surpass these boundaries. In other words, private investigation is the occupation where the individual and institutional investigations (e.g. individual pursuit or investigation) conducted within legal frameworks are being granted to private persons in the scope of an institution.

b) Private investigation is completely different from the police detective job. The police detectives are generally comprised of police chiefs and officers that have graduated from Police Academy Security Sciences Faculty or Police Occupational High Schools. However, these cannot be qualified as detectives. The best example of the countries where private investigation services are best conducted can be said to be USA. We can show France and UK as examples in Europe. Private investigation is conducted in these countries in the framework of specific legal regulations.

Now let’s examine the private investigation concept in Turkey and the legal dimension of this occupation.

2. Private Investigation in Turkey
 
First let’s examine this topic in the context of legality. There is no legal arrangement in Turkey regarding private investigation. The first step on judicial terms was the Private Investigation (Detective) Law no. 3963 with 39 articles prepared under the chairmanship of former ANAP deputy Orhan ERGÜDER.
This draft law passed from the Turkish Parliament and presented for approval to the then President Süleyman DEMİREL . The President Demirel found this law wrong in principle and sent back this law to be re-discussed in TBMM and the law was never considered again. Now let’s see the draft law, being the only document at hand though not a legal resource.

- Regarding the Draft Law that has been Prepared
 
In this prepared draft, it is mentioned about the institution related with private investigation, definition, conditions, penalties and all the detailed related with private investigation. Let’s see what kind of structuring is desired by looking at those.

- Definition of Private Investigation
In the Draft Law of Private Investigation the definition of the occupation of private detective has been made as follows:

“Private Detective is the officer that collects and evaluates every kind of information in the framework of the existing laws limited with the subject being requested on behalf or real and judicial entities, makes research and examination, prevents or expels every kind of assault towards real and judicial entities, ensures the protection of an institution, building, property and commodity, informs the related authorities when being witness/aware of a crime during his/her duties, ensures that the crime evidences are not lost during this time and utilizes the limited authorities granted to him/her with this law.”

As can be understood from the definition, there are certain elements to a private detective. First of all, there must be a demand. The other is, he/she will conduct his/her duties within the confined limits of his/her authorities.

- Conditions
 
After understanding what private investigation is, let us examine the conditions stated at the draft. If we were to state these conditions in the form of items;

• Being a Turkish Republic citizen.

• Being a graduate of at least three-year high school.

• To have obtained the rank of Safety Director, Safety Chief, Superintendent (with higher education) rank at the Safety Services class personnel and that has departed with his/her own will or retired, to have departed or retired from the military officer class of Gendarmerie General Command after being on duty for 15 years, provided that positive opinion is stated on them by the National Intelligence Organization Undersecretariat regarding the fact that there is no objection preventing them from being a private detective, to have obtained MIT Undersecretariat branch director or higher titles and to have departed with his/her own will or retired, to have acted as Property Administrative Superior or at least 15 years of active attorney, judge or prosecutor.
The persons bearing the conditions above hold the right to become a private detective.

Fields of Work


After stating the conditions to be held, this draft has also addressed the field of work for private detectors. Let’s show these in items as well;

• Examination whether the family members have a tendency towards bad habits, acts of behavior to harm the family unity


• Finding lost persons or persons with unknown address, determination of addresses

• Finding lost r stolen property

• Ensuring the protection of the person, institution, building, every kind of facility or property desired to be protected

• Ensuring the security of the institution, agency or facilities in the scope of Private Security Organization Law no. 2495

• Determination whether a personnel working at any rank within a commercial company, factory, production center or any kind of workplace works with honesty, reliability, behavior and acts towards the employer and whether that person is making cooperation with other companies or institutions against his/her own employer company

• Surveillance and prevention of the persons working at any kind of company, big store, agency, supermarket or workplaces especially open to public and the persons entering and exiting these places to steal properties and damage existing immovable property and machines

• To investigate and determine the content of the movable and immovable properties and the right and receivables from third parties of the debtors who are prosecuted at bailiff bankruptcy offices.

In the law that has not been accepted, the field of work of a private detective is explained in this manner. As can be seen, the detectives can work in the field of property and daily relations that can be deemed as simple among the persons themselves. When we look with a wide paradigm, it seems that when these type of less significant works are left to this occupation, the burden on the police force will be much lifted.

When this occupation, having a specific field of work and confined legal boundaries, strays from these limits, it has come to the mind of the law maker that this person should be subjected to certain sanctions just as it would to any logical person and therefore certain punitive norms are stated. These disciplinary penalties are reprimand, monetary penalty, banning from activity and banishment from occupation. According to a newspaper column, when the detectives abuse their duties they will be subjected to one of these penalties according to that law. For example, the person the makes private investigation without a license will be subjected to imprisonment from three months to a year and serious monetary penalty ranging from one million liras to 10 million liras. The ones that do not abide by advertisement prohibition will be subjected to serious monetary penalty at five million liras.

I have stated that the draft law prepared in this manner was sent back by the President Süleyman DEMİREL to TBMM for re-discussion. There are several reasons why this law was sent back to TBMM. If we list those reasons, they would be as follows: violation of the Constitution, violation of other laws and incongruity in terms of the articles of the law itself. Now let us examine these reasons in an outlined manner.

The Reasons for the Non-acceptance of the Prepared Draft Law
 
In terms of incongruity to the Constitution;


a) The violation of a principle of the Constitution warranted under article 20 “The privacy of private life and family life cannot be harmed”

b) The fact that it creates a threat in terms of personality rights and personal security

In terms of incongruity to other laws;

a) The fact that private detectives investigating, gathering information and documents in crimes that need to be prosecuted by Public Prosecution would violate the “confidentiality principle” of the preparatory inquiry and thus violation of Code of Criminal Procedure

b) The fact that private detectives determining whether a personnel working at any rank within a workplace works with honesty, reliability, behavior and acts towards the employer and whether that person is making cooperation with other companies or institutions against his/her own employer company is a violation of the labor laws

c) At the Law of Judges and Prosecutors no. 2802, while determining the hindering conditions for becoming a judge or prosecutor, the limit is at three months of imprisonment, whereas this limit is set at six months for private detectives and this might facilitate objectionable persons to become private detectives

d) While granting the private detective the authority to carry a weapon at the law, there is no arrangement regarding use of weapon, this issue is left to regulations, and thus this will be in violation of similar laws

In terms of incongruity of the law articles;
The law was not accepted due to some reasons listed below:
a) At article 19 of the Law, the person commissioning the private detective is termed as “customer” instead of “wronged party” and this may cause wide interpretations and thus it can permit unrelated persons to make gathered information and documents to the harm of third parties

b) As indicated at article 24, the private detective bureaus being only audited by private provincial investigation committee members and this duty not being granted to the auditors of the Ministry of Internal Affairs and Justice would cause insufficiency in the auditing mechanism

c) The penalties to be given as per article 26 to the persons acting as private detective without a license would be insufficient and far from being deterrent

d) According to the expression at article 27, although the obligation to have worked for 15 years is accepted to become a private detective at some jobs and not for others, will create incongruity against the principle of equality

e) It would be fit to grant the right to become a private detective to the ones that have graduated from faculties of Law, Political Sciences and branches of financial law and procedural law and that have worked as research assistant for some time at private investigation bureaus

f) The fact that the private investigation board decisions at acceptance and prohibition actions of private detectives not being submitted to the approval of the Ministry of Internal Affairs might cause objections.

3. Implementation of Private Investigation in Turkey
 

Although there is no legal arrangement in our country regarding private investigation, this occupation is being conducted. In fact, the number of private investigation bureaus is increasing by the day and there are hundreds of bureaus in active duty. The main cause behind the increase in the number of private investigation bureaus is the mistrust of the spouses on each other and the ever-increasing crimes and events left unsolved by the police.

The individuals conducting this business does not bear any legal character however, since private detective business does not carry a crime nature in abstract terms at the Turkish Criminal Code (TCK), it cannot be said that the private detectives are committing a crime in abstract terms. As indicated at the legality of the crime at TCK, “No penalty can be given and no security measure can be applied to a person for an act that is not expressly deemed by the law as a crime”. The persons doing private detective business are using this gap in the laws.

The private detectives do not have the authority to carry a gun. It is also forbidden for them to eavesdrop on telephones. However, the investigations they make and the evidences that they find are used at as evidence in courts. These persons can take place as experts in courts.

Especially when we look at the applications to the private investigation bureaus, it is seen mostly that they are regarding parts making their children followed and for spouse cheating. In other words the parts apply to private detectives to learn whether their son or daughter is on drugs or not, or if they are a member to an illegal organization, or the spouses apply to the bureaus to learn whether their wife/husband is cheating on them. The spouses that do not trust each other make each other followed by the hand of private detectives and learn what the other is up to. At an interesting news taking place at the newspaper, the price of research and pursuit services is 375 € for the first 18 hours and 75 € of this amount has to be down payment. Finding an address costs 535 €, finding a lost person costs 500 €. Shooting with secret camera for the cheating spouse costs 250 € extra. Moreover, for each photograph taken, the price is 85 € and the price for covert voice recording is 195 €.

RESULT
 
It is a must for a legal arrangement to be done regarding private investigation. This is necessary for the performance of the detective’s occupation. The authorities do not have to be defined in a wide frame, this is not possible either. In fact, even in the United States where this occupation is being conducted with the most expanse authorities, they do not possess to search a private residence or take anything from this residence. The ability for them to do so is only up to their creativity. Certain criteria have to be set by making legal arrangements in our country as well.

Private detective business is necessary for Turkey. The increase in some crimes (murder, swindle) in Turkey and some of them becoming irresolvable (unknown offender) causes our people to resort to illegal formations called as “underground organizations” or “mafia” for resolving their problems.
A law has to be enforced to eliminate these issues.

When this arrangement is done, the fractures in the system shall be eliminated as well. The detectives acting according to a specific procedure will abide by the laws, make researches my paying due care to the private life rights of persons and support the police. The burden on the police forces will be lifted significantly.

However, the citizen is also benefiting from private investigation application. Since the citizen applies to the prosecutor explaining his/her complaint. The prosecutor then forwards the issue to the police to be investigated. The police looks at the address given, if the subject of complaints is occurring at that address, he/she intervenes, if not, they cannot exceed the boundaries of the duty. Then the police will have to let go of this problem. Here, the job of private detective starts. They continue the pursuit until the end since they are making money.

Detective: Secret Agency, Police Agent, Person Charged with Private Investigation.


Private Investigation is to be able to obtain evidence on a subject requested to be investigated by persons or firms with special equipment (devices like camera, voice recorder, photograph machines, etc., internet-computer networks, and by the use of several programs such as “Vehicle Tracking Systems”, “Geographical Information Systems”, “City Information Services”). Private Investigation can only be conducted by a person that is a criminal expert that has received training at a Criminal Laboratory, is an expert in its field or that has taken master’s degree education in programs like crime psychology, criminology, or who is an academician in one of these branches of science. It is widespread in Europe and USA. Private Investigation is generally conducted by retired security staff or even the retired Armed Forces staff. HOWEVER, HAVING WORKED AT THE SECURITY UNITS DEFINITELY IS NOT ENOUGH TO BECOME A PRIVATE DETECTIVE. The person that defines him/herself as a Private Detective being a Retired Security Personnel does not mean the he/she is a good Private Detective. To be a successful Private Detective, the person has to have obtained Private Investigation training, have the vision of a detective, bear characteristics specific to detectives and be very smart. WHILE YOU ARE SELECTING THE PERSON TO WORK WITH REGARDING YOUR VERY INTIMATE PROBLEM, DO NOT GET MISLEAD WITH CV LABELS. The Private Detectives keep confidential the investigation-following activity they are doing, the identity of him/herself and the customer. In their following activities they generally act together with the security forces or get help from them. When necessary, they change their appearance or conceal their identities. When they are exposed, they place in their assistants. A Private Detective must know several information on criminalistics, societal psychology, investigation and querying techniques, criminal and personal psychology, criminology, sociology, ballistics, trailing, photography, laws, scene examination, finger print detection, using various light sources based on optics knowledge, ability to use measurement-evaluation tools, photograph comparison, identity detection and individual recognition, using the internet, etc.

Why do women cheat? 

The reasons for women to cheat should be sought at the family structure. A women who has always felt the lack of a strong dad figure all her life, if cannot find this strong dad figure when she gets married, she can cheat on her husband with men that represent this power. Or a women who could only keep the attention of her father with flirtatious behavior all her life, believe that in marriage life she can attract the attention of men by flirtatious movements. The deficiencies, flaws and deprivations in childhood at mother-father relationships can play a major role. A women feeling un-desired by her spouse can resort to disloyalty to rebuild her self-respect.
 
The rate of cheating women is approaching the rate of men. According to the figures in USA, the number of women cheating on their husbands is 15 percent and this rate is 22 percent for men. The marriage counselors believe that the rate of cheating among women has risen up to about 50 percent..

When married women gather together, they talk about other things than children and the problems of work life. Especially if these women are married for 6-7 years ...

The American women nowadays tell each other how they cheat on their husband. For example a woman named ‘Erin’ at age of 40s, married for 10 years, tells during a meeting to her friends how she met a man other than her husband, in fact met several men separately. Erin states that ‘even if she does not have sex with them, the excitement brought with even a single kiss is enough for her.’

The factor of loneliness

‘Veronica’, age 35, married to a pilot and constantly feeling lonely, fell for another man. She says that this rich businessman that she met at a nightclub in Dallas, can give her everything that her husband can’t: Tiffany brand jewelry, flowers and love notes… But one day, the lover sends a flower bouquet and the husband opens the door… That is when the marriage of Veronica ended. Now married to another man (not the flower sender), Veronica is talking about opening a web page with her women friends for married women who want to flirt. ‘I believe this has a market’ says Veronica. In fact, there are such web sites. Women who are looking for illtrainingate sex can find what they want by simply ‘search’ing on Yahoo, MSN or AOL. The place where the married women most find new lovers has been determined as workplaces.

The surveys are misleading

In the past, the laws were punishing the women cheating on their husbands. They were losing everything, even the property they had before they married. Today, the laws changed to protect women. Moreover, the education level of women increased as well. Now, they can move more freely and tell their friends what they did without hesitation.

It is hard to calculate how many women are having illtrainingate affairs, since the surveys are not usually responded truthfully. The men are providing exaggerated information regarding their sex life whereas the women act more discreet. The experts say that men cheating their wives are at the rate of 50 percent whereas this rate has increased today up to minimum 30-40 percent for women. According to a research conducted back in 1991, this rate came out as 10 percent, whereas this figure increased to 15 percent in 2002. According to the same research, the rate of men cheating on their wives is 22 percent. Marriage counselor Michelle Weiner-Davis believes that the rate of women cheating on their husbands has approached 50 percent.
 
Disloyalty is present in the women’s genes !! 

According to the results of a research conducted in England, cheating comes from the genes of the woman. 
At the news in the Bild am Sonntag Newspaper, the research conducted by Prof. Tim Spector and his team from St. Thomas Hospital in the capital London.

By asking questions to the women regarding their cheating habits, the results obtained were very astonishing: 

23 percent of women told that they were cheating on their husbands.
What is more interesting is if one of the twin sisters is cheating on her husband, the possibility of the other twin sister cheating on her husband has been found to be 55 percent.

At the monozygotic twins, the possibility of both siblings cheating is said to be much higher.

The men are also investigated


It is currently investigated whether the obtained results are valid for men as well. The experts defend that this possibility is also expected to valid for men as well. Prof. Spector stated that disloyalty being related with genes can be caused by several genes affecting ach other. Prof. Spector, ‘The same situation is also seen for the people loving risk. Here, the impact of several genes on each other puts this feeling to the foreground’. Prof. Spector, saying that he is not judging the women for their disloyalty, stated that ‘The women coming together with more men ensure the breeding of healthier races.’
The cheating women tell on the web !

The women who cheat on their boyfriends or husbands boastingly tell their experiences in a web site.
23 July 2006 17:12

 
Coconut cheating her boyfriend with her high school love and Vendetta, age 34, cheating all her boyfriends “who think they are something great” are just two among these. Most of the confessors are from Istanbul. They “cuckolded” their boyfriends and husband because they were mad. You can read at the web site what happened to the men, the confessions of the ones that noticed they were cheated on and the comments of the users. You can also become a member for free and spill out your own experiences. The web site founders prefer to stay behind the scene and not come out in front of the public. Here are some of the most interesting confessions from the web site.

VENDETTA (Female)
I cheated, I am not proud but have no regrets either


I cheated on all my boyfriends who thought they were something great. I am not proud of this but I have no regrets either. None of them was good enough for me to feel any remorse afterwards. I felt good the most when I cheated on Güray. I kicked them all out afterwards anyway. They should not have estranged me from themselves to have caused me to cheat on them.

COCONUT (Female)
I cheated, wanted to leave, but we’re still together


I cheated on my boyfriend because I was mad. It seems so funny and silly actually. I acted normally although I knew he was lying but he grew indifferent by the day. On the might of the day I thought was the final day of our relationship, I went out to have fun with friends. In later hours, I bumped into a guy I had a crush years ago. We had a chat, etc. and grew closer and spent the night together. But then, we got no telephone numbers or anything. It was lived and gone. The next day I wanted to leave my boyfriend, but he refused. We are still together but yes I cheated...

ÇOK ZEKİ (Female)
I force him to make sports so that he does not cuckold me


I put pressure on my husband to go play soccer with his friends three days a week. Of course the reason is not to force him to play sports. The aim is to make sure he spends his extra energy, leave me alone and does not cuckold me in return!

DEDİKODUCU (30, Male, Istanbul) 
Wow, this world has gone nuts


One of my friends and his girlfriend got separated 5-6 months ago. The boy could not understand and actually he did not want to be separated. Recently, which is 5 months after they separated, the reason came out. The reason for her breaking up, was that the girl was cheating with a married man friend of his and had started an affair with him. They were seeing each other since then. Here comes the moment of revenge… My friend is not having an affair with the wife of the main his former girlfriend is having an affair with. If you take my girlfriend, then I will take your wife! Wow, this world has really gone nuts :)

ANGLE (Female)
Even his dog was cheating on me


I saw my boyfriend, with whom we were making marriage plans, wandering around hand to hand with his former girlfriend! Of course I was completely shocked. He saw me as well. But he did not leave her hand even so. He looked at me in a blank manner. He asked stupidly “What do you want”. The man who was crying on my door so that I don’t leave him, cuckolded me! What I am actually upset about is that the dog of my boyfriend was trying to get on the lap of the other girl instead of mine. Even that stupid dog was cheating on me!

DEDİKODUCU (30, Male, Istanbul)
My friend is cheating, should I tell?


Two of my friends met at a web site. They are together since 8 months. My man friend is cheating on her with other women on the web site. My women friend has no clue. I stopped keeping record. Their relation is getting serious by the day. Should I or shouldn’t I tell? I do not know. What should I do? What if they get married?

CEMOLOG (31, Male, Istanbul)
They are more sly and traitorous than us


I was cheated on too. I become depressed whenever I think of it. I would have respected her if she had left without doing such a baseness to me. But it is very difficult to understand women. Actually they are no different from us. They are more sly and traitorous from us who they dislike and despise as “guy people”. The like money, they like cars, they like career, they like their bosses, they like clothing, they like a simple meal, they like sex, they like dissatisfaction, they like pouring fake tears, they like laughing, they like lies, they like playing with guys in their hands, they like making men suffer, in short they like everything that comes in handy and do not miss a chance when they catch the right time and place. Of course I cannot say that all are same. They claim that 99 percent of men cheat, they cannot be trusted. Ok, but I want to ask this: WHO DO THIS 99 PERCENT TURKISH CHEATING MEN CHEAT WITH? Is not it WITH 99 PERCENT WOMEN? No one should play innocent.

Cyber Disloyalty: Cheating on the Internet

Virtual sex is becoming an addiction to people in increasing number. The persons interested in virtual sex vary from unhappy house women to couples seeking for change, the ones having sexual problems to the single man desiring to make their fantasies come true. From the interview held by Posta Newspaper with Assoc. Prof. Dr. Cem İncesu: What is virtual sex? It is a world of sexuality progressing over the internet and media with image and voice stimuli, accompanies intensely by fantasies. For example from couples actively and mutually having sex and making each other watch to individual persons satisfying their fantasies and masturbating with several pornographic images on the internet, everything is possible.

There is a worldwide increase in virtual sex, why is this?


The first reason is the internet. Wasn’t there virtual sex before? Yes, there was. It was being experienced one way or other with CD’s on computers, video cassettes, etc. But the actual revolution of virtual sex, the big dynamics behind the creation of virtual sex is the internet. Because it provides much vaster opportunities. Internet created an environment where they could see, watch, live and mutually communicate every kind of sexual element, freely and easily, without being subject to various legal, administrative and moral sanctions in the sexuality area, by being freed from these kinds of pressures and reducing the risk down to almost zero. KADINCA.NET

Is virtual sex satisfying?

It is satisfying for a certain group. Virtual sex is way out. Since some people have sexual fantasies in such a rich context or that can be regarded as weird by others. Whereas some have developed sexual satisfaction methods that can be considered within the sexual aberrations we cal as paraphilia. The easiest and most risk-free method for them to reach sexual satisfaction is through virtual sex. When we look from this point of view, virtual sex is an indispensable satisfaction tool.

Which main group applying to virtual sex is on the rise?

I believe that the ones using virtual sex for sexual aberrations or exaggerated sexual fantasies is still in the minority. The actual growing group is the ones using virtual sex to get to know different sexual methods of behavior, live different sexual excitements, imagine themselves with different partners and enrich their sexual life in this sense since they are having dissatisfactions in their own sexual life. KADINCA.NET

So, this is not some kind of perversion...

Definitely not. I mean this has become such a vehicle. I have a patient group that I am closely monitoring. When I look at the people in the applications, most of them were in communication with internet before but did not familiarize themselves with virtual sex. These people who are married or have girl/boyfriends, as they start to experience sexual problems such as unwillingness, incompatibility with the partner or loss in interest within their routinized lives, come to realize that they have virtual sex under their hand, at work place,. KADINCA.NET

Do you recommend virtual sex tot the partners having problems?

This is one of the methods used in sexual therapies. It is called ‘erotic material use’. This is method that has found its place in sexual treatments and sexual therapies in the West and in Turkey as well. In other words, we offer it during the treatment and therapy phase as a stimulant element that enriches the sexual life of the ones that have problems in being excited, with sexual unwillingness. Since there are several persons out there who do not know sexuality and who have no clue on fantasies. The persons using virtual sex or pornography as an element to enrich their sexual lives under the control and suggestions of therapist is one thing and the person closing himself to the real world and completely submitting to virtual sex and hampering the sexual life with his/her own partner is something else.

Is it more common to resort to virtual sex in countries like Turkey where there are more taboos?


Yes. In countries like Turkey that are conservative and where sexuality is a taboo, virtual sex is seen as an important way out for the persons to freely express themselves and put forward their behavior in a free manner. Today, when you look at the statistics of Google, you can see that Turkey is high in the chart worldwide in terms of orientation towards any web site with sexual content. KADINCA.NET

What do you come across in the examples coming to you?


For example the women in Turkey head towards ‘chat’s where they typically develop several friendships. Then start sexual-content talks, fantasy sharing and sending each other messages with sexual content. One day the husband sees this, regards it as cheating and in-family crisis occurs. The number of in-family crises is not as low as you would think! Another issue is the house women. I see that the women sitting at the house every day, getting bored, experiencing several dissatisfactions in their marriage or sexual life are also starting to see virtual sex as a solution. KADINCA.NET

What about couples?

Among the applications I received in the recent times, there are couples that mutually watch each other via video camera from across the globe, who experience this sexuality and that cannot get satisfied easily unless this is present. KADINCA.NET

When does virtual sex interest turn into addiction?

Here is the limit: Whenever virtual sex gets out of becoming an element enriching the person’s or couple’s sexual life and becomes into an element that determines their sexual life and whenever the person or couple cannot live any color, pleasure, satisfaction in sexual life without virtual sex, that is the point where pathology starts. This includes not being able to be detached from the internet, laptop for hours and hours.

NOT: The above news has been published by citing from Kadınca web site !!

Why do men cheat? 

Whether a boyfriend or a husband, most of the men unfortunately cheat on their wives or girlfriends. But what are the reasons behind this forbidden feeling that the men cannot let go of? As much as the women hate being cheated on, the men think of cheating as a merit that much. But why can the men not keep themselves away from cheating on their partners?

1. Sex 

Most men cheat their partners for sex. Because men can easily have sex without feeling anything towards the woman. Men generally getting bored of being with the same women for a long time, want to live sexuality with another woman. Mostly, the man that cheats on his wife by having sex with another women, is still loving his wife. However, making his fantasies come true with his lover makes his excited.

2. Ego 

Sometimes men cheat on their wives to satisfy their own egos. Sex with another women, satisfies the ego of the man. Most men feel more confident as they are with more women.. 

3. Excitement

Men getting bored quickly from long-term relationships feel the thrill by approaching other women. Sometimes, however good a relationship is, since the excitement is over, the man orients towards other women as if he found a new toy.

4. Since they can

The men cheat since they can do it more easily as compared to women. The women are more emotional and prefer to leave instead of cheating.

5. The instinct of hunting

Most men act according to their instinct instead of social norms. Especially young men treat young girls as prey waiting be hunted down and target getting to some girls.

6. Fear of aging

Men, especially when they enter mid-age crisis, start cheating on their wives, thereby refresh the trust in themselves
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How does a cheating man behave?

How does a cheating man behave, how does he lie and how does he give himself out?

The cheating men do not behave as they used to. They start to change, criticize their partners, resort to several ways to prove right what they are doing. Seninle magazine scrutinized this subject in its November issue.

In the world, this happened to Hillary Clinton, Jackie Kennedy and even Princess Diana… Whereas in Turkey, we know lots of names, including Hülya Avşar, who were cheated on by their partners… Being cheated on is bad enough.. But there is another thing that hurts women more than being cheated on by their partners: The lies that men use to cover up what they have done...

Of course there are women who cheat. But women separate from men at a certain point: The cheating women do everything in their power to make sure that their partners do not suspect or get sad. However men, apply an opposite method. When they are having an affair, they completely change their behaviors towards their wives. They put up more fights and start to criticize everything in their wives that they used to adore. Moreover, they mess up the feeling of “trust”, that women care the most, with the lies they tell. Let’s see with examples what these lies and behavioral changes are and what they actually tell us...

I cannot make you like anything anymore!

In the older times when the woman wants to go out instead of watching television, the man would not react that much, but now the slightest wish make the man go mad. Then, when the women gets really upset and starts to yell, he excuses himself by saying that this happens every time and that the wife exaggerates everything.

But, what is actually behind this?


According to the experts “When men start to feel bad over what they did, they feel relieved when their wives yell at them.” In short, the much the woman yells at the man, the better the man is able to repress his feelings of guilt. Here, in this way the men show themselves as the scapegoat, continue to cheat on their wife and see themselves very right when doing as such.

You do not understand me!

One of the typical sentences that the man can say to the woman… The man, that says this more expressly besides their friends and even his spouse can say like this: “For some times, our thoughts started to grow apart.” or “Her actions started to corner and suffocate me”… With these words, the man is trying to justify himself and inclines towards young lovers.

But, what is actually behind this?


Unfortunately, something that is not very pleasant: As the men think that they are getting older, they incline towards women that make them feel younger. Their lives that they had been liking so much for long years, starts to become boring all of a sudden. The women that clean the house, taking care of the children, cooking food, making everything goes in order inside the house become no longer able to meet the expectations of the husbands.

Everything is bad in bed!

The man can start to keep the spouse responsible all of a sudden for everything that is going on at bed. For example, he tries to blame the wife for the fact that he starts to yawn every time they get into bed. Furthermore, he supports this thesis: “There is a fifty percent decrease in the sexual lives of the spouses that have been sharing the same house for years."

But, what is actually behind this?

Of course sexuality with a lover is different. However men are mistaken in these situations: Those gorgeous moments lived in hotel rooms are not just because of the lovers! Here again you need two persons. But, men who tie this only to their young lovers, soon enough learn that they are wrong.
The women nearly jumped on me!
The man gets caught, it is now in plain sight. But he does not give up and continues to lie. Of course he could have said “No”. But the woman just jumped on him at once and he could not say “No”. Everything happened all at once. Even at this point, the men try to justify themselves.

But, what is actually behind this?

These type of lies are generally used by men that have strong egos towards the outer world however where the wives are more dominant in-house. As a result, either the men constantly cheat or, however opposite it sounds, they enter into jealousy crises.

It was really impossible to be with her anymore!

If the cheating has reached a level that it cannot be hidden, the man tries to demonstrate himself as an angel in the outside. Thereby, he tries to get into an innocent character since he can do again what his wife had prohibited him to do.

But, what is actually behind this?

This situation is actually caused by the fact that men do not want to reflect themselves as a bad person to the outside world. The men, that do not want to be seen as a potentially untrustworthy man, easily resort to this lie. But actually the truth is a bit different. The men do the same to their lovers what they had done to their wives and they cheat on the former as well!

How correct do you think these statements are

From single night stands to long-term affairs ... 
The men do not want to learn the truth, the women want to know.
Men: 11 percent - Yes
Women: 30 percent - Yes

My spouse caught me once cheating.
I will be much more careful next time.

Men: 34 percent - Yes
Women: 28 percent - Yes

The liars always need to have a strong memory.
This would be too stressful for me.

Men: 3 percent - Yes
Women: 7 percent - Yes

If my spouse wants lesser sexuality, I start to get suspicious.

Men: 62 percent - Yes
Women: 69 percent - Yes

If my spouse has cheated on me and told what he had done to others, they I immediately break up.

Men: 37 percent - Yes
Women: 33 percent - Yes

"Hyper-sexuality" Over-Sex addition Satyriasis 

The experts defend that the over-sex addiction defined as “horniness” in public should be treated and state that “Hypersexuality” – over sex addiction is actually a disease and that this disease is called “Satyriasis” in men and “Nymphomania” in women.

They emphasize that the socio-economically stronger women and socio-economically weaker men generally have higher sexual desires... 

Hypersexuality term first came into the agenda with the statement of John F. Kennedy who had said that “I could not stand without having sex four hours a day”. Since such a disease was not known at he time, it was diagnosed only years later.

The reasons of Satyriasis


* The childhood being lived in a loveless and distrustful environment,
* Psychological problems,
* Manic depressive attacks,
* heritage, i.e. genetic factors,
* Organic brain diseases,
* Kleine-Levin Syndrome,
* Irregularities at the inner secretion glands, etc.

The hypersexual men, who have lived in a loveless and distrustful environment in their childhood, continuously seek the spiritual and bodily warmth they could not find in childhood in constantly changing partner. Therefore, they cannot reach actual satisfaction. As an infallible indication of this distrust coming from childhood, they always feel the need to prove themselves and conquer new women. For these reasons, this addiction is seen more commonly at people that have had a bad childhood and lived in a disintegrated family environment.

The experts state that this situation is observed in at least three among a hundred patients applying to the doctors in our country. This rate in women is lower, at around one percent. Hypersexuality is mostly seen at the 25-50 age group.

When the personality structures of the hypersexual men are examined, we see a narcissist structure, admiring himself, exaggerating what he actually is and an addicted personality. These are people that easily get demoralized, cannot stand discomfort and constantly in a search to eliminate the discomfort. Their standpoint toward life is generally pessimistic and they are in the mood of asking sympathy for themselves. They are not good with their same-gender fellows. The only thing that they are interested is pornography. The sexual action is on the fore ground. The beauty, attractiveness of that women is not so much important for the man.

Satyriasis – Sexual dissatisfaction in Men “I cannot keep myself from doing sex. I constantly think of a woman with sexual fantasies each hour of the day. I am in great distress. I cannot think of anything else than sexuality. I even have started to hinder my works, my friendships got damaged and have started to feel guilt. I am with a woman In the morning and with another in the afternoon, and then in the evening I go home and be with my wife. I feel very much discomfort in public, I fear that the people will notice these desires inside of me and cannot face anyone, I cannot hide this. I cannot free myself from the thought that with which women should I be with, instead of spending time with my family or friends." 

The expression sexual behavior is a complex result of the mutual interactions of biological, psychological and social impact and it should always be subjected to evaluation on religious, medical, legal and social terms. However, the ignorance, carelessness regarding the use of concepts related with sexual behavior and lack of systematic research on the problematic persons makes this evaluation difficult. The human should not press down his/her sexual desires being a part of his/her nature however the person that consumes all his/her time and energy for sexuality should be taught to express the extreme sexual desires, that cause problem in front of the laws, that threat the physical, psychological and mental health, in a controlled and harmless manner.

I believe that the men, popularly called playboys, that run from woman to women, continuously changing lovers, have serious problems that actually are rooted in their childhood. These type of men try to prove that their sexual power is high by having sexual intercourse with several women. They seem like to have won a victory in this manner and try to cover up the inferiority feeling underneath. The playboys, who prefer to run from feelings of loneliness, hatred, self-hate, etc. instead of facing them, say that they are looking for sex and love, but they are actually transforming sex and love into objects to kill time and thereby they neglect their lives. In fact, although it may seem strange, psychiatrists accept that the playboys have a compulsion developing as a defense against unconscious homosexual inclinations. Another confliction is that sexually dissatisfied men are generally seen among developing countries and especially at inferior cultures. Since in developing countries and inferior cultures, the person does not have the opportunities to have pleasure outside of work and therefore, sexuality is perceived in an exaggerated manner. Hypersexuality can be seen at every socio-economical level and every income group, Dr.Kraft Edbing states that the hypersexual women are generally seen among socio-economically high status women, whereas hypersexual men are generally seen among socio-economically low status men. So, in this case, it is obvious that the playboys in our country are insincere.

Hypersexuality term first came into the agenda with the statement of John F.Kennedy who had said that “I could not stand without having sex four hours a day”. Since such a disease was not known at he time, it was diagnosed only years later. Kennedy was a hypersexual man. The sex addiction of his brother Edward Kennedy came out when he made an accident and after that his political career came to an end.

For most men in the world, hypersexuality is a status to be bragged about. Thereby they can be with many women and feel satisfied by thinking that they own the power. However, hypersexuality currently accepted as an abnormal situation, is defined as a psychological disease. But what should be accepted as profligacy and from whereon should it be defined as a disease. According to the experts, this limit, i.e. the limit for hypersexuality, is not being able to stand monogamy for more than six months. This disease is called “Satyriasis” in men and “Nymphomania” in women. If we go into more detail of satyriasis, being our current subject, it is extreme sex addiction that goes up to dissatisfaction. This is the state where sexual feeling and desires enslave the person. It is called as “horniness” in public. These men, for whom one partner is never enough, who have sexual intercourses above normal and who are non-selective, generally do not have a continuing relationship. Since they cannot overcome their repeating sexual activity instinct with different partners, this disease is a kind of addiction. This is disease where man always thinks of sexuality and gives the message that he cannot be rewarded with something other than sexuality.

The hypersexual men always enter sexual intercourses that do not fit his social status, honorableness, and the present environment; they experience sexual relations with persons with whom he would not actually have a relation in that life time and in time, he starts to feel guilt. And when sex addiction drives the person to suicide thoughts, he applies to a doctor. The person understands sex addiction only after 6-7 years and consent to treatment only because he has started to be affected in a bad manner. Sex addiction annihilates the esteem and prestige of the person just like alcohol and drug addiction. The experts state that this situation is observed in at least three among a hundred patients applying to the doctors in our country. This rate in women is lower, at around one percent. Hypersexuality is mostly seen at the 25-50 age group.

"Jupiterism", who is the Olympus prime god in Greek mythology that has sexual intercourse with every kind of women, "Don Juanism" and "Casanova" are milder versions of satyriasis .All have an obsession against Oedipus complex and in search of a mother image who they once loved.

When the personality structures of the hypersexual men are examined, we see a narcissist structure, admiring himself, exaggerating what he actually is and an addicted personality. These are people that easily get demoralized, cannot stand discomfort and constantly in a search to eliminate the discomfort. They can put the person to the starts in 15 minutes and then after ten days, they can bury them to the ground with their words. Their standpoint toward life is generally pessimistic and they are in the mood of asking sympathy for themselves. They are not good with their same-gender fellows. The only thing that they are interested is pornography. The sexual action is on the fore ground. The beauty, attractiveness of the women is not so much important for the man. What is important is the action.

The man’s sexuality is full of unknowns. Men, they take great pleasure from sex, constantly changing lovers or cheating his partners by saying that “life cannot go on with a single flower” should not be deemed as satyriasis or sex addict, but these behaviors should be regarded as exceeding the normal dimensions of sexual life.

In the recent years, not only the media but the public also started to develop an interest on satyriasis. However, since over-sex addiction change in general based on societal and cultural measures, it is difficult to make a very objective evaluation in this regard. Since what is deemed as normal or fit sexual behavior changes from one societal culture to another, satyriasis concept is mostly dependent on culture and cannot just be evaluated according to the amount of sexual activity.

Extreme sex addiction represses all the feeling of the man other than sexuality, undermines the volition, mind and ethical values and turn him into a runner after women. The relaxation and relief that should accompany orgasm does not come and sexual tension state continues. They do not feel the high fervor at orgasm like other people either and their peak point is not very high and the following relief is very insufficient.

The Causes of Situations Like Satyriasis

Hypersexual behavior can be observed in men at andropause ages, psychological breakdown and depressions caused by hormonal imbalances, psychotic cases where impulse control is lost such as schizophrenia, manic, etc. borderline personality problems, drugs and medicine such as amphetamine or cocaine, especially frontal lobe damages after head traumas, temporal lobe epilepsies, genital eczema, etc. These behaviors are not satyriasis.

Does my partner have satyriasis?

After reading this article, this question will bother the minds of some women. Relax and do not panic. If most of the responses to the following questions are “yes”, you can make a consulting meeting with a doctor: Does the frequency and content of sexual intercourse satisfy him or does he want more? Does he get mad when you say ”no” to his sexual desires? Is he financially comfortable? Is he sometimes over-desirous and sometimes under-desirous to have sex with you? Do you frequently have fights where you have different opinions on sex topics? Does he have a problem in expressing himself or becoming emotionally close? Do you feel lonely during your sexual intercourse? Does he have a collection comprised of pornographic contented textual or visual publications? Does your partner have too much free time outside work? Does his mood change depending on whether you had sex or not? Does he have the inclination to admire or exaggerate himself? Has he been physically or sexually abused in his childhood? Does he some days fee angry and other lonely and tired? Does he get easily demoralized? Etc.

Treatment


The treatment of satyriasis is difficult. In these patients, first you need to create a balanced mood. First drug treatment and then psychotherapy will be needed to eliminate the problem. The treatments lasts for minimum six months.

The Unknowns on Satyriasis

* Dr.Kraft Edbing states that the hypersexual women are generally seen among socio-economically high status women, whereas hypersexual men are generally seen among socio-economically low status men.

* Some psychiatrists accept that the satyriasis is a compulsion developing as a defense against unconscious homosexual inclinations. 

* "Men can be aroused by even seeing women and especially the ones that they can have an intercourse / relation. On the other hand, the image of a man does not create this effect on women. But, man can be aroused in this manner. Since all their past and growth conditions prepared him for this. ON the other hand, sexuality is repressed in the growth of women. The man can arouse himself by imagining new sexual trials, new partners and new satisfaction levels to be obtained in new intercourses, he always tries to develop new techniques in his head. Different sexual anatomies of new partners is a very important change and adventure for men. However, these changes do not matter that much for women. For men, it is an important victory to conquer a new partner. Once they prove their sexual might and attractiveness at this partner, they go on to look for a new partner. Most men think during sexual intercourse that they are not only together with the current partner but actually with all the women they had a relation before and even all the women species"
Kinsey

The information were gathered from the web site of DR Cem Keçe.


NYMPHOMANIA

This disease only seen in women and messing up the social life comes out as a non-satisfiable sexual hunger and strong sexual desire. What is nymphomania? Nymphomania that is made of Greek word nymphe for girl and mania (insanity) words, is the name given to the extreme sexual instinct seen in women. The indications of nymphomania are non-satisfiable sexual intercourse desire or the masturbation made until falling out of power. Nymphomania, contrary to what is being thought, is not a word used for searching for frequent sexual changes or having a strong sexual desire. Only the person’s desire and power determine the intensity level of the sexual desire. Sexual change request is again dependent on the wish and power of the person. Even 40 years before, Magnus Hirschfeld had explained nymphomania as “sexual desire awakening just or a short period after the sexual intercourse”. In our days, it is known that every woman can reach multiple orgasms even for a brief period of time. These women cannot be called as nymphomaniacs. Most of the sexual scientists today, make a separation between “actual” and “supposed” nymphomania.

What causes nymphomania?

One of the organic reasons causing nymphomania can be hormonal imbalance. According to Prof. H. J. Stemmler and Kiel, the sexual desire at the women who are on androgen treatment due to cancer might increase to a discomforting level. Since the sensitivity of nerves increase at extreme levels at women having nymphomania indication, this also impacts sexual instinct. The nerves of the cerebrum that controls sexual intercourse, adjusting partner selection and ensuring satisfaction get damaged. The nymphomaniac becomes the slave of her desires and partner.

In actual nymphomania there are organic distortions at the nervous system, defects at the connections between the nerves and glands, whereas the reasons behind “supposed” nymphomania are psychological. The issue at this type is “wrong attitude”. These persons are in disagreement with their own sexualities, environment and same-genders. Although the reasons causing psychic nymphomania are personal, some certain types can be shown.

Messalina complex


Nymphomania means sexual flooding in women. You have to make a separation between nymphomania women and extremely emotional or sexually strong woman. The nymphomaniac generally neglects social pressures and laws. For her, there is only one purpose and that is sleeping with a man. She says “yes” to every class of man even the ones not at the same level as hers. In the Ancient Roman Emprise, it is told in historical texts that Messalina, the wife of Clausius, would sleep with several men each night, and for this she would change into an alias to mix within the public. For this reason, nymphomania known as Messalina complex of course does not mean the emotional or desirous woman towards her partner or lover.

Although, Cleopatras, Messalinas being a subject of novels and films with this type of fame in history, symbolize the examples of this behavior, the rate of nymphomaniacs in public are low. The structure of a normal woman necessitates binding to her man. The woman loving her man, feel happy and secure beside him. The devotion psychology brought by loyalty to her man fits the mental state of women well. There is no sacrifice a woman cannot make for the man she loves.

The sexual instincts of the nymphomaniac women that knows no rules, affects herself in such a way that he falls in problematic situations for this reason. There have been nymphomaniacs seen that become almost unconscious under a desire crisis, waylaying men she does not know, like people in maniac attacks, and forcing them to sleep with her.

Nymphomania can be caused by a mental disorder or can occur due to heritage, organic brain diseases, internal secretion gland disorders, etc. This situation must be treated as finding. The woman that surrenders to a man she encounters while in a maniac attack cannot be said to be nymphomaniac.

Vulva diseases also play an important part in sexual desires. For example in itchy diseases of vulva, the woman is in a constantly aroused state. The movement of her legs, the sitting style, immediately arouses her. When this regionally focused sensitivity is cured, the woman returns back to normal. In a vulva eczema, it was seen in forensic science for a woman trying to have sexual intercourse everywhere and any time.

In menopause years, the mental disorders and depressions caused by hormonal imbalances and local irritations, the desires can increase and this can drag women to abnormal behavior. Again, these type of women spend all their money on young men. Although these types of behavior are not counted as nymphomania, it can be said that normal dimensions are exceeded.

Indications of Nymphomania


• Thoughts constantly focusing on sex or sexual ideas.
• Masturbation done with the impact of compulsion 
• Having random sexual intercourses
• Losing the ability of control
• Repeating unsuccessful relationships, etc.

Harms of Nymphomania

Nymphomania is a disease that affects the whole social life and relations of the person. Since the person is constantly focused on sex and sexual intercourse, she has a single goal: to make sex with a man. Therefore, her friendships and naturally love life gets damaged. The person always finds herself inside frequently repeating unsuccessful relationships.

Furthermore, the risk of the nymphomaniacs to catch sexually transmitted diseases is very high. The health of the person also goes into risk since she experiences continuously irregular sexual activities and constantly changes partners.

There are also the following!

Messalina complex

Nymphomania means sexual flooding in women. You have to make a separation between nymphomania women and extremely emotional or sexually strong woman. The nymphomaniac generally neglects social pressures and laws. For her, there is only one purpose and that is sleeping with a man. She says “yes” to every class of man even the ones not at the same level as hers. In the Ancient Roman Emprise, it is told in historical texts that Messalina, the wife of Clausius, would sleep with several men each night, and for this she would change into an alias to mix within the public. For this reason, nymphomania known as Messalina complex of course does not mean the emotional or desirous woman towards her partner or lover.

Although, Cleopatras, Messalinas being a subject of novels and films with this type of fame in history, symbolize the examples of this behavior, the rate of nymphomaniacs in public are low. The structure of a normal woman necessitates binding to her man. The woman loving her man, feel happy and secure beside him. The devotion psychology brought by loyalty to her man fits the mental state of women well. There is no sacrifice a woman cannot make for the man she loves.

The sexual instincts of the nymphomaniac women that knows no rules, affects herself in such a way that he falls in problematic situations for this reason. There have been nymphomaniacs seen that become almost unconscious under a desire crisis, waylaying men she does not know, like people in maniac attacks, and forcing them to sleep with her.

Nymphomania can be caused by a mental disorder or can occur due to heritage, organic brain diseases, internal secretion gland disorders, etc. This situation must be treated as finding. The woman that surrenders to a man she encounters while in a maniac attack cannot be said to be nymphomaniac.

Vulva diseases also play an important part in sexual desires. For example in itchy diseases of vulva, the woman is in a constantly aroused state. The movement of her legs, the sitting style, immediately arouses her. When this regionally focused sensitivity is cured, the woman returns back to normal. In a vulva eczema, it was seen in forensic science for a woman trying to have sexual intercourse everywhere and any time.

In menopause years, the mental disorders and depressions caused by hormonal imbalances and local irritations, the desires can increase and this can drag women to abnormal behavior. Again, these type of women spend all their money on young men. Although these types of behavior are not counted as nymphomania, it can be said that normal dimensions are exceeded.

Nymphomania – Sexual Dissatisfaction in the Woman

The diversity of sexual life that is intense and takes the partners to satisfaction is in the nature of the human and is beneficial for the development sexual personality. Every woman that taken great pleasure from love-making and that can experience multiple orgasms are not sex addicts. However, the person living frequent non-satisfactory sexual relations is wrong.

What is Nymphomania?

This is sexual functional disorder seen in women, by acting opposite to her family, age and psychology, and is characterized by the desire to be with different men and having extreme sexual desire. In short, it means sexual flooding or extreme sex addiction going up to dissatisfaction. This is the requirement to establish a compulsive sexual intercourse that can go up to the level of a disease and the state of not being able to stand against men. It is a psycho-sexual disorder. This situation is called “satyriasis” when seen in men. It is comprised of the words “nymph”+”mania”. Nymphs are being that run away from men other than gods or semi-gods and they are even against men. Whereas in slang it is termed as “penis lover”.
The women that are emotionally and sexually very desirous towards her husband or lover cannot be evaluated as nymphomaniacs. Since the nymphomaniac women neglect social pressures and laws, desire to sleep with not just one but any men and from any class and generally put themselves in great trouble in front of the public. Today, nymphomaniac women are also becoming a material for the media with their exaggerated sexual behavior that can go even to courts, creating great reactions. The most beautiful example for this from history is the gorgeous wife of Messalina of Clausius in the former Roman Empire who slept with several men every night. Messalina would change into an alias and slept with all the men she could find to repress her sexual desires. For this reason, nymphomania is also called as the “Messalina Complex”. Other examples are Katerina, the wife of Great Petro, and Cleopatra, with a sexual desire crisis and passion, who forced a man she did not know to sleep with him like unconscious people in manic crisis. Cleopatra and Messalina have become a subject of novels and films with their fames. Again, this subject was examined at “Unsatisfied” book of Ergon Mengi from Celsus Publishing. Also , the word nymphomania was used by our infamous writer Vedat TÜRKALİ to explain the situation of the character named “Refia” in his novel of “One Day All Alone”.
In the nymphomaniacs, addiction to pornography can fast turn into an attitude out of control and sex addictions can cause devastations as big as alcohol/substance addictions. Furious, nervous and mad nymphomaniac women frequently get the feeling that something is not right, have hard time in concentrating and performing their daily activities and for this reason, other sexual disorders and especially orgasm disorder is frequently seen. Since the nymphomaniac women cannot reach satisfaction even in sexual orgasm. The relaxation and relief that should accompany orgasm does not come and sexual tension state continues. Or since their peak point is not very high and the following relief is very insufficient.
The rate of nymphomaniacs in public in our country and in the world, that cannot establish correct relations, having trouble in becoming intimate and unhappy about their lives are low. Since the structure of a normal woman’ mental state necessitates binding to her man bringing about happiness and trust. Therefore, there is no sacrifice a woman cannot make for the man she loves.

Reasons of Nymphomania

* The childhood being lived in s loveless and trustless environment 
* Mental disorders, 
* Heritage, i.e. genetic factors, 
* Organic brain diseases,
* Internal discretionary gland disorders, etc.
The nymphomaniacs that have lived  their childhood in a loveless and trustless environment, seek the spiritual and bodily warmth they could not find in childhood, now in constantly changing partners. Thus, they cannot find actual satisfaction. As one of the infallible indications of this distrust coming from childhood, they feel the need to continuous prove themselves and conquer new men.

Reasons Causing Situations Similar to Nymphomania

*Menopause years in women, 
*Mental disorders and depressions caused by hormonal instabilities,
*Medicine and drugs, 
* In situations like vulva eczema, etc., nymphomaniac behavior can be observed. These types of behavior are not called nymphomania but the normal dimensions of sexual life are exceeded anyhow.
Treatment 
*Psychotherapy
*Medicine treatment


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To resolve the heritage fights among the heirs being one of the most important problems of our day..
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  • All the information regarding the to-be-inherited movable and immovable properties
  • Of the heirs
    • T.R. ID Number
    • Father and Mother’s Name
    • Birth Date (if possible as day / month /year)
    • Maiden Name of Mother
    • And/or all the data you have

And if present,

  • Work address
  • Work phone
  • Cell phone


STUDENT INVESTIGATION

The crime elements going down to even primary schools in the recent years...

  • Cigarette
  • Drugs
  • Prostitution
  • harassment
  • Alcohol
  • Theft
  • Violence, hitting
  • Political interactions
  • Etc.

To protect your children...
The Information Requested

  • The content of subject
  • Detailed information on the environment
  • If any, possible suspects


PERSONNEL INVESTIGATION

Regarding an employee working or to be newly hired to your company

  • To check whether the information and references are correct
  • To confirm loyalty to you and your work
  • Whether he/she has information transfer from inside

The Information Requested

  • Personal information on the target person
    • T.R. ID Number
    • Father and Mother’s Name
    • Birth Date (if possible as day / month /year)
    • Maiden Name of Mother
    • And/or all the data you have
  • Habits, preferences and priorities
  • Cell phone
  • If present, vehicle information (license plate, color, model, brand)
  • If there is no vehicle, the method of transport


COMPANY INVESTIGATION

To obtain information on the company that you plan to become a partner or employee of...
The Information Requested

  • Of the target judicial entity;
    • Occupational chamber records
    • Tax Office and Tax number
    • And/or all the data you have
    • Work address
    • Work phone


GUARDIANSHIP CASES

Divorcing is an unwanted situation; however it is obligatory when necessary. In guardianship problems as a result of divorces... 
For the determination of SOCIAL, ECONOMIC and SEXUAL PROFILES... 
The Information Requested

  • Personal information on your spouse
    • T.R. ID Number
    • Father and Mother’s Name
    • Birth Date (if possible as day / month /year)
    • Maiden Name of Mother
    • And/or all the data you have
  • Habits, preferences and priorities
  • Work address
  • Work phone
  • Cell phone
  • If present, vehicle information (license plate, color, model, brand)
  • If there is no vehicle, the method of transport

Although we provide service all around Turkey, we have central offices in Ankara and Samsun.





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Obtain more information on security.

All the entrances and exits at the workplaces, parking lots or all the spaces desired to be kept under control can be placed under control and security and work discipline is ensured for the workplace and the working personnel.

Would you like to make the community a safer place?


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